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6 Tips to Improve Communication with Your Teen

Author: Shawne' Poplar, Owner of U Optimized Success Coaching LLC


Effective communication is important for building and maintaining strong relationships, and this is especially true when it comes to communication with your teenager. Here are some tips for improving communication with your teen:

1. Listen actively

It's important to listen actively when your teenager is speaking to you. This means giving them your full attention, avoiding interruptions, and asking clarifying questions.

2. Show genuine interest

Show genuine interest in what your teenager has to say and be open to their ideas and perspectives. This can help to build trust and strengthen your relationship.

3. Use "I" statements

When communicating your thoughts and feelings, try to use "I" statements rather than "you" statements. For example, "I feel hurt when you don't come home on time" rather than "you are always disobeying me." This can help to reduce defensiveness and improve communication.

4. Set boundaries

It's important to set clear boundaries and expectations with your teenager, but also to be open to negotiation and compromise.

5. Practice empathy

Try to put yourself in your teenager's shoes and try to understand their perspective. This can help to improve communication and strengthen your relationship.

6. Seek professional help

If you're struggling to communicate with your teenager, it may be helpful to seek the support of a mental health professional, such as a therapist, counselor, or life coach.


Improving communication with your teenager takes time and effort, but it can be a rewarding process that helps to strengthen your relationship and improve overall well-being.

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